A normal Monday turned into a storm of movement on social media, with people suddenly posting personal life incidents. By evening, the new trend had taken over, flooding walls and news feeds with a trending hashtag: #MeToo. Do you wonder what it is about? Let me explain.
It all started with the Harvey Weinstein scandal, when multiple women accused the Hollywood producer of rape and sexual assault. The incidents came to light much after they had happened, raising the question of women's safety and security. The first step in dealing with a problem is making people aware that you have a problem. Hence, the "me too" campaign.
The movement was started by actress Alyssa Milano, who urged women to comment "me too" if they have ever faced sexual harassment. Trending on Facebook and Twitter, #metoo has had a global impact, garnering half a million tweets in 24 hours. The movement has also spread to Facebook, with thousands of users talking openly about the harassment they have faced in life.
If you’ve been sexually harassed or assaulted write ‘me too’ as a reply to this tweet. pic.twitter.com/k2oeCiUf9n
— Alyssa Milano (@Alyssa_Milano) October 15, 2017
People have argued on social media that simply talking about the problem does not bring a solution, however, it has also been repeatedly pointed out that awareness is the first step towards resolution. If the movement can influence one person who stubbornly denies the extent of sexual crimes, it can be considered a win.
During a time when people assert their opinions freely over social media, trends are the most convenient way to spread your message. The same situation was seen when men were tweeting #NotAllMen, in response to the male gender being blamed universally for sexual harassment.
The movement has evoked deep reactions from Twitterati, with some people sharing their experiences and urging others to do so. Check out some of the Tweets below:
#metoo doesn’t just mean rape. It’s the 500+ unwanted encounters I’ve had in which I can’t pinpoint exactly because there’s too many.
— Natalie Ovics (@NatalieOvics) October 17, 2017
#MeToo This is so accurate it's scary to see it summed up so succinctly pic.twitter.com/7YrR8xJdXi
— j em (@kladoink) October 17, 2017
#MeToo | We stand with all the women worldwide. Sexual harassment and violence are unacceptable! pic.twitter.com/yZ5XxB9FNs
— ALDE Group (@ALDEgroup) October 17, 2017
It was never my clothes, myself or what I did that it happened. I never asked for it. I've always accepted the blame. #metoo
— Reddington (@lexi__belle) October 17, 2017
"Please don't tell anyone, I could lose my job"#metoo
— Sharon Nansikombi (@Nansikombai) October 17, 2017
Hardest post I've ever made No one needs to know my story No one has to know how many times No one needs to know how I feel Just know #MeToo
— Victoria Perez (@victoria_pez20) October 17, 2017
On Facebook, too, deep revelations and heartfelt experiences were recounted with the hashtag.
Men for #MeToo
Sexual harassment is not confined to one gender; this has been irrevocably proven by men who have come forward in what was primarily a women's movement, to share their own accounts of sexual abuse. Their confessions have broken gender stereotypes, highlighting the fact that abuse and harassment can happen to anyone and anywhere.
Taking up arms with the women, men have displayed how a cause can surpass the age-old gender war by bringing mutual support and solidarity. Be it men who have realised sexual assault is real and much more common than they realise or the ones who have come forward with their own experiences, the movement seems to have touched all.
Check out these brave men who have spoken up on Twitter.
What men should take from #metoo campaign is not that the women in their life need more protection, but that the men need re-education.
— Wil Redd ???? (@wilredd) October 16, 2017
Brave women shouldn’t have to put dark moments of their lives on display so that we realize what a big problem sexual assault and harassment are. We should already know: for every #MeToo story, there was a man who knew that story. Men must own up and do better
— Fred. (@freeloosedirt) October 16, 2017
Men, think about this: you personally don't know a single woman that's hasn't faced sexual harassment or assault. We must do better. #MeToo
— Ahmed Alsulaiti (@AAlsulaite) October 16, 2017
Men,
— Nick Jack Pappas (@Pappiness) October 16, 2017
Don't say you have a mother, a sister, a daughter...
Say you have a father, a brother, a son who can do better.
We all can.#MeToo
Regarding boys and men as rape survivors:
— Charles Clymer?️? (@cmclymer) October 15, 2017
I thought of turning this into a thread, but I think it's better read as a whole.#MeToo pic.twitter.com/wYcLbtukJZ
#Metoo for men reached Facebook as well.